Rather than belabor the point (since I’d rather not commence with freaking out), I’ll provide an email I just sent a dear friend:
”I don’t know if it’s hormones or having a little cold or what but I’m having major wedding doubts (not the getting married part!!!). For instance what if I cry in front of all our guests, ruin all of the pictures, and then no one dances???”
Me, anxious? A little bit, yes.